Scheming Man Disinvites Fiance's Stepsisters From Wedding Without Telling Her Because They're 'Not Immediate Family'

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Mar 12, 2022 4:00 PM EST

Marriage is all about effective communication. If an issue arises, the married couple needs to be equipped to talk it out. It sounds simple in theory, but it's much more complicated in reality. That's why so many relationships don't end up working out. A lot of people have no idea how to effectively communicate with one another. Even though we learned that honesty is the best policy back in kindergarten, none of us have followed that rule to a T as adults. We've all lied to get what we want or cover our own butts. We're not saying we're proud of it, but we're definitely guilty of it. In today's 'Am I The A$$hole?' post, OP caught her fiance in a major lie. They had to shorten their list of wedding invites, so he asked her if she could disinvite her stepsisters because they weren't 'real' family. When she refused, he went ahead and did it behind her back. 

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  • 01
    Font - r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/lightendoftunnel1 7 hours ago O 2 4 e5 36 AITA for losing it on my fiancé for disinviting my stepsisters from our wedding?
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    He better have a good explanation for this super rude behavior. 

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    Font - I'm gonna keep it short. I f25 am getting married to my fiance next month, We've had no issues with the wedding planning except the "guest list". Context: I have a large family, I have 2 stepsisters (18, 20) and a biological brother (27) and also a biological sister (30). My
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    There is no wedding planning without drama involved. It always has to be one thing. 

  • 03
    Font - fiance argued that the guest list should be cut short and suggested I only invite my "immeditate family", I asked him to elaborate and he suggested excluding my stepsisters. I said no and got upset with him for implying that they're not family, he said "well, This wasn't what I meant.I was just speaking
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  • 04
    Font - from a technical angle", especially since I didn't include them in the wedding party like MOH and bridesmaids. So he thought they were"unneeded" but I said they are wanted, and will always be wanted and included by me. Well, days
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  • 05
    Font - ago, my stepsisters called saying my fiancé cancelled their invitations and told them some lie about changing wedding location and telling them they won't be able to come. I was fuming, I went home and started screaming at him, He asked that I hear him out then explained he had no
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    Font - choice since we were required to shorten the list, and he just did my "dirty work for me" since I obviously was looking at the situation from an "emotional angle" and couldn't bring myself to disinvite my stepsisters myself. I called
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    Font - him a hypocrite cause he invited almost 6 of his friends who, as far as I know, aren't immediate family. I told him he hurt my stepsisters by going behind my back and excluding them from y wedding which they've been so excited about. He got up
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  • 08
    Font - from the couch and yelled that it's our wedding so my stepsisters feelings aren't really that relevant compared to H.I.S and called me controlling for wanting my way or the highway. He took his phone amd stormed out to see his friends. Some of his friends called to "scold" me
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  • 09
    Font - for how I'm treating "their brother"and then went on about how rude I was to suggestthat "their brother" disinvite them from the wedding just because I don't like them and called it "a you problem". My fmil called and is wanting to sleak to me, he probably told her what's
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    Font - on and she is probably going going to ask that I apologize for yelling.
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  • 11
    Font - SeekingBeskar · 7 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA. It sounds like he's the issue here for implying that those you consider to be your immediate family are "unneeded".
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    Font - Cat_got_ya_tongue · 6 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [39] The only way you could be an asshole is if you married this guy. Give yourself a better future. Run.
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    Organism - EggandSpoon42 · 7 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [13] NTA. But this should be the end of your relationship. The very end. Pack your shit and get out of there.
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    Font - SaikaTheCasual · 7 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [29] NTA and you should call that wedding off ASAP. He clearly doesn't care about your feelings. You said they were family and you wanted them there - and he went behind your back and cut them off. (Even lying to them instead of telling them the truth)
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